There are a variety of occasions on which you might want to send a quick digital love note, too. When it comes to falling in love there is a moment when your crush entangles you in his arms and you suddenly feel safe and happy. Right, though. So, why not take advantage of modern technology a little more?

I've read loads of articles about how guys give girls butterflies, and my friend who I have a crush on gives me butterflies all the time by tickling me and hugging and wrestling me. It's always nice to read someone else's view on the "love" topic just to get an idea if those thoughts and emotions you are having are crazy or valid. I might find love, or I might get my heart broken. Have you ever watched out for any of these signs?

Sure, you could fire off a quick “ILY” without a second thought, but there are so many other creative “I love you” texts to send your partner that may prove to be a bit more meaningful.
Right? All main characters plagued with the decision of having to choose between two seemingly great guys. While it would be easy to just say “go with your gut” or “trust your intuition”, sometimes you can’t always decipher what your intuition is telling you. He’s got a college degree and a great job. You may unsubscribe at any time. So, I'm giving you permission to go ahead and take a selfie. When you wake up and the first thing you do is check your phone to see if your crush called, and before you go to bed hoping he sends you a text saying good night, those are definite signs. The one we can embrace with open arms and with no reservations, despite what anyone else has to say about it. A lot of girls base their security around how affectionate the boy their dating is with them. Updates: Follow. Share . Submit your writing to be published on Thought Catalog. In the end, I chose Mr. Left.

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Don't forget to look right at the camera as if you're gazing into your SO's eyes with sheer adoration. We’re only human, our brains aren’t perfectly crafted machines made to know all the answers. We’ve all heard this, right? There are countless ways to say "ILY" over text, so feel free to get creative with emojis, memes, photos, music, and even videos. Sweet Text #31 – I’m addicted to the way you tell me you love me when we say goodnight by text or over the phone. Remember your girlfriends are still there for a reason. He’s got the X factor: chemistry. I'm also an avid advice giver that if a guy wants to canoodle with you he'll ask you to stay or just grab you, but if he doesn't then stay distant. I’ll let you know how it goes- but for now I’m just busy enjoying the spontaneity of life right where I’m at. Now, all you have to do is whip out your phone and you can express your feelings to bae within seconds. I am a firm believer in being with someone you think could become your best friend.

Then, write out a list of all the traits you appreciate the most. Remember: No matter how you text "I love you," the important thing is that you're making an effort to say it at all. But the answer should be obvious. Heck, maybe you’ll be lucky enough to find all of your desired qualities in a partner merged together and made into one perfect guy**Sheena article. 5. Or even when a guy put his arms around me, I always wanted my space.

Is “good” ever enough with love, though? I’ve seen it time and time again: You meet said Tall Dark and Handsome and somewhere amid what you think is marriage in the making, “true love”, passion, whatever you want to call it, comes in smacking you in the face, halting you to an abrupt stop. There are no more Lloyd’s serenading you with a boombox outside your bedroom window. We all want the sought after “Tall Dark and Handsome”, spewing with money, generosity, and favorable procreating potential (am I right ladies?). It'll still get the same message across, but the novelty of it may make the message a tad more exciting. Or, maybe you’re missing your long-distance boo a little more than usual on a particular day, and you need them to know. This far fetched Mr.

The ideal text will be genuine and heartfelt, of course, but it will also be personal, incorporating details that are relevant to your specific relationship. If not, you of course grab a girl friend and hit the town, but either way he is the first one you think of when making decisions. Gone are the days when you had to wait to tell your partner that you love them in person or write it in a letter that wouldn’t get to them for weeks. But you know what, they’ll be more than enough Mr. Rights and Mr. Lefts to go around.

So, why not say it in a different language? Right, who can guarantee a good life and happiness? It could be a hoodie or another other garment that smells like them (my personal favorite), a pair of undies, a toothbrush, or something else entirely. Send them a text that says, "Things I love about you, in no particular order." #Boom. Right] and [Mr. Left] if they’re both equally as cute and nice?” That question really got me thinking, why? The Truth Is, I Never Should Have Friendzoned You, 5 Serial Killers Who Would Have Gotten Away If It If They Weren’t Complete Idiots, How This TikToker Used A Viral Trend To Spread Awareness About HS, An Open Letter To Anyone Who Was Dumped During The Pandemic, 150+ Sweetest Quotes About a Parent’s Love, The Best Arguments For The ‘Intruder’ Theory In The JonBenét Ramsey Case, I’m Sorry If I Make It Difficult To Love Me. Sign up for the Thought Catalog Weekly and get the best stories from the week to your inbox every Friday. And is she 100% happy with that decision? Here we go again.

As soon as I think something good comes along, this thing called Life sneaks back in reminding me “Hey, I’m here for the party!” and forces me back down to reality. 0 0. Then, add something like this: "In case you forgot what it feels like when I look at you." He’s cute, he’s nice, he’s a gentleman, and does everything a girl could want. But what if one day you find yourself stuck at the crossroads between two guys who seem like Mr.

Perfect doesn’t exist (maybe we can pretend). Duh! No matter how much I like Mr. Maybe it's not that extreme, but it has a point to some degree. [Read: 80 utterly romantic things to say to your girlfriend over a text] Just remember, personalization is the key to making her feel loved and special. Even when you've been dating for a while you still walk around with this slap happy grin on your face that you can't get rid of. I was always that girl who wouldn't stay the night because I couldn't get comfortable enough to fall asleep with a guy. 6.

But- there’s someone else lingering in the back of my mind. My point right there- I’m telling ya, there’s got to be a reason.

Sometimes girls if a guy is pulling back he either isn't into you anymore, or he's holding himself back so if it is bothering you make sure you speak up and say something! Right!

Sometimes it's just nice to be together and enjoy the company. And of course, you can never go wrong with the romance languages. Right. Let me tell you girls, for all those who are not much of cuddle-ers, there is something about feeling comfortable when your boyfriend holds you in his arm. “the one”, our dream guy, our knight in shining armor. One of the hottest things about flirting via text is that you can do it … Some of us get the pleasure of having our cake and eating it too, but not all of us are so lucky. I don’t know what to expect, or what will come out of this. It doesn't matter if you're going to see your partner tonight or you won't get to hang with them for several weeks — opening their texts to find a photo of you is almost certain to make their day. But we all know Mr.

GPS can’t help you out with this one, girl. It’s 2016, ideals are changing. Or go for the guy that gives me butterflies with every word and every glance? Or on top if you prefer.-Just thinking about all the things we could do if we were back at my place right now. Go for Mr. You don't always need to be making conversation. He’s there for a reason.

But the right love will be worth it.”. When he starts texting you more often after seeing you with another guy.

This is one of the best signs you're falling in love. Just like Julia in The Wedding Singer, Allie in The Notebook and Bella in Twilight, I, too, am left with the burden of a major decision. What I do know is this: I don’t want to spend my life asking myself a bunch of “what if’s” and “could’ve, would’ve, should’ves.” I want to live my life passionately, spontaneously, and with no regrets.

The one you can’t get your mind off of, though, the one that makes your heart go wild, that should be your hint right there. Because there’s beauty to be found in the unexpected.

We’ll call him Mr. Left (lol because he’s not a Mr. Wrong.

Knowing how much he has an affect on you helps you realize to what degree you're falling for him. Perfect may have existed back when our parents and grandparents were our age, but times have changed.

The best thing about this message is that it not only can show your partner that you love them, but it goes one step further and explains why. One day, while explaining my dilemma to a close friend he asked me, “What’s the difference between [Mr. Forget “Netflix and chill”, he takes me out on real dates, holds my hand, kisses me on the forehead, and texts me every day. The guy everyone would tell me to say no to. This guy, literally, walked right into my life and asked me out on a date. Every time my phone rings, I get a text, or I know I'm going to see my man I get butterflies in my stomach. Even something as simple as wanting to go see a movie, you think if your man would want to see it too. Hunter Hayes said it right when he said “I don’t want “good” and I don’t want “good enough”, I want “can’t sleep, can’t breathe without your love”.”. There's nothing wrong with just saying "I love you," but when you already text that to your partner frequently, it may start to lose its luster.